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Maybe the problem is the way modern courtship works.

Maybe dating is just too much bullshit. Why date sporadically for months to wait to escalate the relationship to exclusivity or cohabitation or marriage or whatever only to find yourselves incompatible companions?

I think it might be easier and more efficient if instead of just going on dates the couple tried to live together for a month. In the rare case they don't hate each other by the end they get married, otherwise they agree to never speak again.