Who's scruffy looking?

I got my hair cut. It's been probably six or seven months since I've done that, maybe more. It's now above my shoulders, a little past my chin. (Before it was way, way past my shoulders.)

Well, I'd go say far as to say it almost looks respectable now. I think the beard makes up for it, so I still can safely say I'm rather scruffy looking. But my beard is relatively well kept now, I regularly trim it. I can only hope that I won't be mistaken for a reputable, not excessively grungy guy. Oh the horror.

People are always telling me, "Adam, cut your hair, shave off your beard, the women will be flocking to you," of course that will never happen anyway (me getting chicks that is) but that's not the point. The point is why do I have to look respectable? Hell, I'm way more interested in grungy-looking punk-rockish girls. Why can't I meet disreputable riot grrls who dig the fact that I'm scruffy looking, dammit? And why do I write these rants if no one reads or responds to them?